3 Online Dating Mistakes to Avoid

While you search the internet for that special lady…the one of your
dreams…your soul-mate…the other half of yourself, you can do a lot of
things right. Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of things wrong….things
that will guarantee failure and a broken heart. Out in the "real"
world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white
lies are all ingredients for success. However, those same qualities
are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that
matter.
There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and
being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy
from a woman's point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face,
you will come across as too aggressive…maybe even, scary. Try to
remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the
relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the
key.
Nobody is perfect. We areall flawed in some way or another…and that
includes you, as well. If you expect the woman to be absolutely
perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding
perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from
a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine.
It won't happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones
you can live with andthose you can't.
Little white lies and false fronts won't work. Be honest from the
beginningof a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting
but don't makefalse statements. The truthwill come out eventually
anyway. If you say you area lawyer who makes a million bucks a year
and you are really an electrician that makes$75,000, you have set
yourself up for failure.
Remember…don't be too aggressive, expect to everfind perfection or put
on afalse front.