Ask the Right Questions First

OK. You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer
profile. You've uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat
with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have
real potential and those who don't have any potential at all? You need
to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not
just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women
wore labels like "Gold Digger" or "Daddy'sgirl"….but they don't so
it's up to you to find thesethings out and you can't just ask direct
questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how
to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.
After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, "What are the
biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?" Listen carefully to
her answers. She's going to tell you a lot about herself and her views
on men in general.
Next you should ask her, "What do you really think about online
dating?" Nowshe will tell you if she has had any bad experiences
dating o line and help you to avoid making the same things wrong.
Now for the all-important one….."What caused the break up in your last
relationship?" If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should
probably moveon to the next prospect. Ifshe takes all the blame
herself, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was
by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn'tright for either
of them, you've heard the right answer. Move forward but always with
caution.
Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more
confident when you meet the lady for the first time.